I just had the worst fight with my coworker. I mean like really, really bad. We were screaming at each other. My boss isn’t here today, but I know he’ll find out about it. It was about all the frustrations that I’ve had with her over the last however long it has been and she basically dismissed them all as me being too concerned with what she does and me focusing on petty little things. We both said we don’t like each other adn don’t want to deal with each other at all and slammed our doors.
I don’t know what to do. I just got the raise I’ve been hoping to get for the past year, I can’t very well leave. But I know my boss won’t be happy about this. I feel so bad after all he did to help me, though it wasn’t all my fault of course. And I didn’t make my case well at all. I had all this ammo and forgot all about it in the heat of the moment.
The one positive thing was that it felt really good to finally say to her that her working fewer hours bugged me. Her excuse? She thought we all were working on music’s schedule so she adjusted her hours accordingly – without asking or telling anyone. I’m just speechless about that.
I just don’t know what to do, other than curl up in a ball and cry. Should I find another job? Should I try to smooth it over? I don’t know. HELP!
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